Reflections on mid life and beyond:  An Authentic Journey

What on earth’s going on?

Why in the world did I find myself in need of  change?

I remember waking up one morning with a profound realisation that more of my life was behind me than ahead. 

I was face to face with my own mortality, and it ignited something within me—an awakening, a self-assessment that felt both bewildering and slightly intimidating.

As I looked back over the years, I realised how many dreams I had let slip through my fingers, forgotten in the whirlwind of life. I had followed the path of least resistance, embracing the expectations of others, succumbing to peer pressure, and conforming to a life that no longer resonated with me.

I willingly traded my freedom for an antiquated life model that no longer fit. It was as if I had been living life on someone else’s terms, and the joy had slowly drained away. 

I shouldered the weight of responsibility, the need to provide, to support, to do what was expected. I played my role dutifully, but it took a toll. It felt like I had forgotten myself and the dreams I had once cherished.

But then, something changed. I felt a surge of determination—a drive to start living life on my own terms, to do what I genuinely believed in, and to make the most of the time that lay ahead. 

I knew that I had to gather the necessary resources to embark on the journey that was undeniably mine. I understood it wouldn’t be a cakewalk, and the people around me might not initially welcome the changes. 

However, those who truly cared for me, who wished the best for me, understood and supported my transformation. Those who couldn’t, well, I couldn’t drag them along on a path they weren’t ready to explore. I couldn’t force them to see my vision, to aim for the heights I had set my sights on, to make the impact I believed was vital in this world.

I knew that I would need inspiration, support, companionship, and accountability along the way. Perhaps the individuals who would join me on this adventure were people I hadn’t yet met, this most certainly was the case.

I gradually became aware of the mission I was here to fulfil, one only I could accomplish. It was a service I had to provide, and it demanded my unwavering commitment and energy.

It’s been over three decades since this all came crashing down on me. I have learned a lot, grown, changed, had my ups and downs, plenty of tears, heartache, challenges, successes and disappointments. 

Looking back, there are things I wish I’d done differently, moments I wish I’d seized sooner, learned earlier the power of faith, belief and forgiveness. As they say, hindsight is a wonderful thing.

What I can do is share what I learned on the journey – Help you discover where you want to go, uncover your destination, define your desires, understand your ‘why,’ set your ‘when,’ and chart the ‘how’ to reach your significant contribution.

My latest book ‘The More, The Diamond Principle’ Is not for general release. Well not yet anyway. It is part of my workshop, Seminar and forms the basis of the road map for your journey. The book comes with the Seminar. This all makes sense when you attend. 

If my story resonates with you, if you find yourself at a crossroads, facing the challenges of midlife, or feeling lost, stressed, uncertain about the future or just plain confused, I invite you to join me. Reach out, let’s embark on a journey together, and uncover the vast potential your future holds for you.