by Bill Kellner-Read

How to STOP moving the deadline So you aimed for that picturesque retirement at 40. Well, maybe 50, 55, 60, or the conventional 65? Dentists, on average, retire at 69, according to the American Dental Association. Life doesn't always play by our retirement scripts. You extended the finish line, perhaps still not having enough to retire comfortably on your current income. The decision: keep going or accept a downhill journey…

When you emerge on the other side, questioning the whirlwind of time, and wonder, "What now?"—that's when you realise the need for a "What Now." A purpose, a meaning, something to keep the gears turning, to create, share, enjoy, and make a difference. You might have thought those aspirations were reserved for the working years, I did. Surprise! I was wrong. The desire for input, relevance, and impact doesn't retire…

In a world where creatives often find themselves tethered to the demands of daily life, caught between the expressive flow of their dreams and the pragmatic rhythm of financial stability, a common dilemma unfolds.  Many creatives yearn to send their creations out into the world, leaving an indelible mark, but the constraints of work and finances shackle them to someone else's vision, stifling their own. Yet, there is a transformative…

In a world that often tells us to postpone joy until retirement, what if we questioned that narrative? What if there's a way to enjoy the benefits of retirement living now, without waiting for a distant tomorrow? Breaking the Mould: We’ve been handed the life script - work hard, accumulate savings, retire, and then finally enjoy life. But what if we challenge that notion? What if life doesn't have to…

Have you ever pondered the power of "What if"? Does it inspire action, or does it instil fear and hesitation?  The "What if" scenarios in life can either paralyse us or propel us forward into newfound strength and determination. Consider the simple "What ifs": What if it rains? Grab an umbrella. What if the trains go on strike? Find an alternative route. What if you fail an exam? Dust yourself…

The midlife crisis—those words can evoke feelings of apprehension, uncertainty, and even fear. It's a period many of us approach with trepidation, as we wonder what it means and how it will affect our lives. However, midlife is not a time to dread but an opportunity to embrace. It's a time to seek, explore, and rediscover our true selves and the profound meaning that life holds. In "The More: The…

Reflections on mid life and beyond:  An Authentic Journey What on earth’s going on? Why in the world did I find myself in need of  change? I remember waking up one morning with a profound realisation that more of my life was behind me than ahead.  I was face to face with my own mortality, and it ignited something within me—an awakening, a self-assessment that felt both bewildering and slightly…

We acknowledge that work can get stressful at times However it’s when at times - becomes -  All the time -  that there’s a problem We have a tendency to ignore stress, try to COPE  with it - Learn techniques to deal with it I get that - but coping isn’t the ideal - A long hard look at the problem is! What is stress - ‘the reaction of the…

Many of us dream of the day when we can finally retire and say goodbye to the daily grind. But — What if work could be more than just a pay check?  Research shows that there is a great need for Purpose and Recognition in life Let’s face it without a purpose, what’s the point, keep working, keep earning and hope for early retirement.  Imagine a career that offers not…

No I can’t see the future - but  - I can look back on experience  One of the great things about getting old is what you can share with those on the journey I can’t stop anyone making mistakes and in a way I don’t want to The learning from these experiences is what gives us wisdom However, preventable errors are another thing entirely - AND - I wish I’d…